I'm sorry that I have not been contributing very much. There has been a lot of struggling in my life and much distraction.

I'm in the process of divorce due to my husband abuse, neglect, and adultry. The loneliness is starting to get to me. I'm struggling with finding self-worth and feeling loved by the Lord. I'm having trouble grasping my identity in Christ these days.

Please pray that I can hear the Lord clearly and that I have the strength to face my emotions and approach the Lord to sit at His feet for worshiping him, reading His Word, and prayer journaling.

SearcherKris...

I have not heard from you for awhile and did not know to inquire or not.

I did not want to make you feel like I were prying.

YES; you were and are in our prayers, We know some who have went through a divorce and it was an ordeal and no one wins out,especially when children are involved.

If you want to talk personally you can PM me.

It is up to you!

TGIF

Thank you so much. I really appreciate it. This last week has been particularly tough, it's getting better though. I expect there will be cycles of ups and downs for a while.

Thank you for praying for me.

I had my final divorce hearing this morning, and it is complete. I am no longer married.

I am surprised to find how free and full of joy I feel. The Lord has truely set me loose from that marriage and way of life.

I am discovering my significance through re-learning what my identity in Christ is. I'm learning that I am a whole person, whose identity is not based on relationships with others, how people view me, or what I do. My identity is that of a child of God, bought by the blood of the Lamb. It is He who frees me. All I have to do or be is what God wants, and that's enough.

God has also placed a special person in my life. It is still very early in a relationship, but we truely feel that God has brought us together. We are being cautious and following the Lord's lead. Nothing sudden is happening because we are taking time to consider what is right and seeking the Lord's will.

I wish you blessing in your "after life"

I am not aware of your knowledge about divorce and your actions after that, as written in Scriptures.

I would study that before going to far and alot of prayer before, during and after before making decisions or commitments.

TGIF

Again; any help I am here.